Tuesday, October 27, 2009

One at a time, or all at once


I can only be one Barbie at a time, it seems.


Every day, and more nights and weekends than I care to discuss (work/life balance is another blog for another day), I strive to be Career Barbie. I am proud of the work I do and I love my job, but it does leave me feeling neglectful of the other important things in my life.




When I try to stay on track with my fitness, by running or giving myself an hour of Pilates, I take away time from making dinner with E, socializing with friends, and quite often my bedroom ends up strewn with dumbells and a balance ball that terrifies my poor cat!








I wish I got more pleasure out of taking care of my home. I know you're out there, you lovers of cleaning, but I can't claim to be in your ranks.

I'm a grudging caretaker of my Dream House!



And when I'm doing any of the above - taking care of my career, my body, or my home - I'm missing out on the friendships that used to be so easy to maintain.



And cuddling with the man I adore.










Not to mention my Master's Thesis!











Aaaaand I'm done.


Image sources: http://www.barbiemedia.com/



2 comments:

  1. Love this blog, Hol. When I'm wearing one hat, I'm always thinking about the other hats I should be wearing. Isn't that the way of the world?


    Anyway, I'm thinking of you. Welcome to the addiction that is iPhone. You will LOVE it.

    <3

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  2. I totally agree with you. Now that I am working, although I love my job, I am finding that certain other things are falling by the wayside, and I wish they weren't. I just realized the other day that I haven't spoken to a certain friend in 3 weeks! And it's just because we are grown ups now, with other obligations. Sometimes, I want to be Skipper instead of Barbie.

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